im super bored. dunno what to do now.. hmm ok i shall write abt some of my theories/ xiang fa..
- was sitting on the bus comfortably when an elderly couple boarded the bus-
needless to say, of course i got up and offered my seat to the old woman. i recalled something my formal tutor used to say about those ppl critising others for not giving up their seats.
" sometimes some ppl are narrow minded. when they see some old ppl standing in front of a teenager, and tt the teenager dont give him/her the seat. the first impression they get is that this teenager has poor upbringing. then they will take a snap shot and send to STOMP. but have they considered the fact that the teenager might have offered and tt the elderly person has declined the offer? Besides everyone pays the same fare. there is no such thing as he/she/i should be obliged to give up my seat for others. IF the person has worked the entire day, is feeling tired and really needs a rest, there is no need for him to feel guilty for not giving up his seat. "
i understood what she meant. she want me to have a broader perspective. for me, i always give my seat to old ah pei ah ma. because i know im still young and healthy. AND in future when im old, i would appreciate if someone offers me a seat. but i wouldnt man yuan and tsk tsk like other old ppl do, if they dont.
- seeing couples during valentine's day -
hmm in future when i get married, sth impt for my other half is that he must like me more than i like him. i dont like to use the word lurve.. i watch too many drama serials that i become a bit desensitised alr. ppl always anyhow use this 3 words. anyway as a woman, of course we would want our husband to pamper us. in my bro and his gf case, i feel that his gf likes him more than he likes her. ( i think ) looks is not that impt. [ eveyone will look old and wrinkled 30 yrs later.. ] the nei han is the most impt. looking at my parents, they are so different and yet similar in certain ways. [ both are jie pi] they complement each other. i asked my mum which part of my dad attracted her? (since i know its definitely not the looks) she said it was because he was humorous. i didnt know my mum so smart leh.. im enlightened. so if you grow old together, a man who bothers to think of ways to make you laugh and to keep you happy daily. ahh yes this man is definitely very dependable. hmm money is also impt but not that impt for me. because i know i can earn enough for myself to spend. SO i conclude the most impt thing to look for in your partner is still the first one i mentioned. haha
' mummy!! its over~~~ ' im off to work. =D